Poyoness Personified

I finally get it. I should never layan any unknown guys on Skype, because except for a decent few, the rest are just looking to waste company time and create trouble. They have no manners but expect me to layan them nicely no matter how rude THEY are. They don't care about anyone's profession, or views, or life. They just want to borak kosong.

Kenapa orang tanya "boleh berkenalan"? Nak berkenalan buat apa? (Kalau I tanya up front, I kena cop garang la pulak). But seriously, my question is, WHAT DO YOU WANT?? kalau nak borak, borak aje la. Buat apa nak berkenal-kenalan lak. Berborak tu berkenalan la. Tak ke redundant soalan tu?

Kenapa nak tanya orang dah kawin belum? Takut husband marah? Pasal apa lak nak marah kalau takde hanky panky? Ramai kawan I dah kawin. Takde lak bini dia nak marah2. Takde sebab orang nak marah kalau berkawan biasa.

One had the cheek to say "I saw your face on PausBiru."
"And..?" I ask.
"Nothing. No komen"
Huh? What? I'm ugly? I know that already. So?

If I accept someone's contact, it's to network. I like having friends. Especially ones that contribute positively to my well-being. I don't need more "friends" yang nak cari pasal...

No wonder others look down on us. At a time when people are earning their pay, Malays dok chatting on company computer, internet and time. Instead of volunteering in charity work, they go and chat up girls for no apparent reason. Saja nak gelakkan orang 'perasan'. Instead of taking an interest in a worthwhile hobby or cause, they waste time shopping or karaoke dengan "kawan". Anak bini tak ingat dah.

The majority of volunteers and committee members in MNS are non-Malays. They're busy people, they're married, but they make time for things that they believe are important. Where are the Malays? Siapa jaga street kids in Chow Kit? Christian Missionaries. Where are the Muslim groups? Is it any wonder that they convert. Salah siapa?

Yes, I have an identity crisis. I grew up Jawa and then mixed all around. I'm still Melayu, and I'm still Muslim. I pray and and no, I don't sleep with my Mat Saleh friends. I would really like to be with a decent Malay guy. I just don't think I'll meet them on Skype.